We take the vetting process seriously to ensure a safe, genuine, and compatible dating experience. Each potential member undergoes a series of in-person and phone conversations where we ask intentional questions about values, lifestyle, and relationship goals. Similar to a job interview process, we may request references depending on the situation. Full background checks are available upon request or when circumstances call for additional verification.

We believe in creating a natural and fun environment to meet new people. Our events range widely to suit different interests and comfort levels, including but not limited to:

• Easy group hikes

• Pickleball groups

• Game Nights

• Book club gatherings

• Brewery/Vineyard meetups

• Cooking classes

• Casual dinners or picnic socials
  This variety helps our members connect over shared activities and build authentic relationships beyond traditional dating formats (events are optional for any members!)

After a thorough vetting process, we use detailed profiles and insights from conversations to pair you with compatible individuals. We focus on shared values, lifestyle preferences, and long-term relationship goals to foster meaningful connections. We ask both parties if they are interested meeting, and describe some general characteristics of each. Then, depending on interest, we set things up!

No! We welcome diverse members from various age groups and backgrounds. Our goal is to create an inclusive community where people seeking intentional relationships can find a compatible partner. We think that by having match conversations with a person who is looking out for your best interest, you can connect with someone who shares your goals. Why not cut out time, stress, and miscommunication?

Today, there is no cost to join our soft launch! As we build interest and our client base, we plan to eventually offer tiered pricing that suits a variety of needs, situations, and engagement interest.

The timeline varies based on individual preferences and availability. Many members start attending events and meeting matches within a few weeks of joining, but creating a successful match can take longer depending on compatibility and mutual interest. We will start with your  timeline preference!

You have full control over your participation in events. We tailor invitations and suggestions based on your interests and comfort level, so you can choose what feels best for you.

While our primary focus is romantic matchmaking, we understand the value of meaningful friendships and community. Some events and meetups naturally foster friendships, which can also enrich your social life.

Our commitment to intentional, personalized vetting combined with thoughtfully curated events sets us apart. We prioritize quality over quantity and focus on fostering genuine local, in person connections through real-life interactions.

You can request removal at any time. You are never obligated to stay in the client database. Once you ask, your information will be permanently deleted or fully removed from our pool, ensuring you are no longer part of Loom matches.

Your information is strictly confidential and remains private until there’s a mutual match. We only share details with someone you’ve agreed to be introduced to, maintaining your privacy at all times.

No. We do not share your personal information with any third parties. Our commitment is to protect your privacy.

Absolutely. Before any introduction, we will chat, and you will review and approve precisely what information will be shared. You maintain full control over your profile details.

Yes. We can mark your profile as inactive at any time. While inactive, you will not receive match suggestions or introductions but remain a valued part of Loom should you wish to return.

No. Joining Loom matches involves no long-term commitments or contracts. You are free to step back or opt out at any point without penalty. There are no set limits to matches, or timeline to participate.